This book is a blueprint on how to have a relationship as well as how not to. Whether you are in a relationship or not it will certainly help identify the areas one can relate to moving forward with their lives and loves. One of the truly self-help books that guides you through the intricacies of a relationship to discover what is working and what is not. Wish I had this years ago!

A wonderful basis for identifying and addressing relationship happiness, or lack thereof. The best part of the work is that it empowers the reader to think and analyze prior to communicating about sensitive relationship issues.

"Head, Heart, Crotch Connections: How Not to Fail In Search of Your Perfect Union" by Dr. Vazquez offers a profound exploration of the intellectual, emotional, and sexual ties that shape intimate relationships. This guide equips readers with the tools to articulate deep desires and challenges, fostering stronger connections with partners. Through practical advice and insightful analysis, Dr. Vazquez helps navigate the complexities of love, ensuring a journey toward a fulfilling union is well-informed and intentional. Perfect for anyone looking to enhance their relational dynamics.

After reading the reviews of this book, which is something I always do when seeking new ways to solve personal issues, I thought it might have been written expressly for psychotherapists and therapists in their work with patients. Instead, I found it to be helpful in opening up new ways to approach some of the personal issues that I faced. “Head Heart Crotch Connections” is filled with practical techniques for understanding relationship building that is central to finding and sustaining intimacy. It has helped me understand how my partner and I can move forward to a better life together.

this is simply a must read for anyone navigating relationship challenges. so often the issue is that only part of the puzzle is fixed. here the author identifies head heart and yes the brutally true part about intimate compatibility ("crotch match") which so many other writers gloss over but is the pink elephant in the room. a great read for anyone

If you are looking to get a better understanding of the type of connection that works best for you, Head, Heart, Crotch Connections is a MUST! Dr. Vazquez provides valuable tools to help you develop a healthy intellectual, emotional, and sexual relationship with your partner and with yourself. Whether you are already in a relationship or in pursuit of one, the tools provided in this book will allow you to find and connect the missing pieces that has kept you from attaining a balanced and healthy connection that works for both you and your partner. As a clinician, I have been recommending this book to my clients as assigned reading. I am looking forward to the Spanish version.

A wonderful book providing clients with easy tools to identify areas of conflict and dissatisfaction within their partner relationship. It assists clients in gaining further insight and awareness into how childhood re experiences and relationships with parental figures can lead to problems within the "heart, head and crotch" preventing individuals from experiencing satisfaction and happiness within these three spheres. The book not only provides explanations and reasons for unhappiness experienced in intimacy but also offers encouragement and hope that through the "work" of psychotherapy positive and fulfilling emotional, intellectual and sexual connections can be gained and maintained.

This book is such an inspirational and eye opening read. Dr. Rene Vazquez del Valle covers all of the necessary topics that we should all know in order to have a successful relationship such as emotional, sexual, spiritual and mental needs. This book written by a Latino, should resonate with our entire community. During a time, where divorce and separation rates are at an all time high, this book serves as an inspirational weapon of enormous value used as a tool needed to succeed in our relationships. This is a must read.

Easy and uncomplicated read. I used this book as a tool in better understanding the complexities of my behavior in maintaining my current relationship. I recommend this book wholeheartedly for both a lay person and a professional in the field. This book is well written and clear enough to be able to utilize the key points and references in my daily life. I am excited to see what comes next from this accomplished author and professional!

As a psychologist I was impressed with the powerful concepts in the book. I have recommended it to my clients who are dating or in relationships which are unsatisfactory. As a self help book it has had an impressive impact on helping clients to clarify their thoughts, feelings and values about the quality of connection and compatibility in their intimate relationships.

The connections & disconnections of the HHC, how to utilize the right words to explain your emotions, ideas and sexual feelings with your partner, I found my past self in the pages of this book and happy to know that I have grown so much, HHC Connections is very informative & knowledgeable. I highly recommend it. Thank you Rene.

A totally enjoyable and informative read! The author's sharing of real life experiences together with his amazing insights, makes this book not just fun to read, but also provides an opportunity to understand the complexity of our relationships in an easily understandable fashion. A fun, easy and educational book, I highly recommend it.

I enjoyed reading this book very much, as it is a "must-read" for anyone in a relationship. Dr. Vazquez provides much insight and helpful advice on how to keep the 'lovelight' burning by avoiding conflicts, resolving conflicts if they should occur, and insightful information on how to maintain that 'happily ever after togetherness'!

This is a most insightful, brilliant guide to relationships, and contains many 'AHA' moments. A must read...!

Clearly laid out and offering helpful questions and vocabulary, this book is based on decades of Dr. Vazquez’s clinical experience. It takes an often overwhelming task and breaks it down to a manageable level. Anyone looking to improve or understand past or current relationships should find it very useful and stimulating.